Not my physical look
I am so shocked at times when people don’t find some of the profiles I send to them as attractive. Some of these men/women I think are objectively speaking good looking people but yet someone out there still thinks they are not. Being on this site for quite sometime now you really get to see how subjective attraction is to each person. One of the best things one of my member once did was to send me a picture of an ex boyfriend of hers who she thought was very attractive. I particularly didn’t think much of him but what that did was give me a great idea of what she found attractive, making matching that much easier. It might be worth it for some of you to send a picture to your matchmaker so they can get the same image in their head as in yours.