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and even when you are not. Stay active, enjoy life. Don’t let the dating scene be the only outlet in your life. Between dates this will get really lonely. Be your own person, when dating this will come out, and you will be a better person for it. If you are out there enjoying yourself, Museums, Coffee Shops, Sports, whatever you enjoy to do, will also give you something to talk about on your date.

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Jul/07

18

Feedback to Matchmakers

Today while I was looking for matches, I noticed how many pending matches where sitting in my inbox. I have made in the past 10 days more then 88 matches and still some people have not responded to them. To me it seems kind of weird, people sign up on the site, and say they want to meet someone and then when I make the effort to find them a match they don’t respond to it. I am trying to give them the benefit of the doubt, maybe they are on vacation and forgot to change their status to reflect that, maybe they don’t want to insult me by declining the match (by the way us matchmakers do not get insult when you turn down the match, we just would like to know why so we can help you better in the future), or maybe they are not so serious about dating.  I would love if anyone out there is a member of Jretromatch.com or any other dating site let me know why you don’t respond to matches. I think the insight would be helpful to us matchmakers. We really care and want to help so a little feedback is all we need :)

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Jul/07

17

Matchmaker,Matchmaker …

For some of you, the idea of using a matchmaker to help you find your match might sound a bit old fashioned. True it is an old concept, but if it worked in the past, why change it? Think about it: are most of us able to find the love of our life at the bar down the street? Or do most of us meet that special someone through a friend or family member who acts as a matchmaker? So you see using a matchmaker is not so crazy after all. Seriously, us matchmakers on Jretromatch love what we do and want to help you find that special match. Talk to us, tell us what you are looking for, give us feedback, the more you are in touch with us the better we can help you. Looking forward to helping you find your match!

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Jul/07

17

Welcome to my Jewish dating blog!

When I first encountered the idea of blogs, I thought great here is away for people to have their Diaries online, why would someone want to do that? Little did I know it would become one of the in things to do. So here I am sharing my thoughts and feeling with you :) I have been a matchmaker now for Jretromatch.com for a year and half and I would have to say I learned a lot about dating and matching up singles. I am looking forward to sharing my thoughts and hearing from you soon.

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Jewish Dating, like anything else is difficult and frustrating, but we have to attempt to go through this if we want to meet someone. What are some signs that this person could be for you? After a few dates you feel really comfortable with each other, you want to share your day/night together, you want to pick up the phone to just say hi, you think about each other, you have a smile on your face..and you feel good when you are together.

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You are out on your first date, try to focus and find the good qualities of each other. You may not ‘click’ right away. The first date is just to see if you have enough in common to go out again.

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Picky..picky..picky…are you being this way..Stop, or your chances of meeting your partner are going to get more difficult over time..open yourself up.

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You are planning on calling the person for the first time, ( or even subsequent calls after the first date)

*  Don’t call late in the evening

* if the person isn’t home, leave a message not long winded, introduce yourself, and leave a time when they could call you back

* if they say that they are a little traditional, or observant don’t call over Shabbos, or just a few hours before

* if you don’t hear from them in a few days, call back.

* don’t call during a time of day when you know they won’t be home and then continue to call, either not leaving messages, or to many.

These are just a few common curtesy tips..more to come..or what do you suggest?

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You are out on your first date, or maybe your second, it still is not the time to reveal all “personal” information. Be yourself, but you don’t have to tell them everything. If the relationship continues, they will be plenty of time to reveal the “dirty laundry”. If you are coming from a bad divorce or past relationship that didn’t work out, the first few dates are not the time to be discussing this. Be open and honest, but you can leave some of the details out, just use your discretion and make the other person as comfortable as possible to get to know you.

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It is going to happen, either way until you meet your future partner. Rejection, you will reject many men/women during the dating process. Don’t take this as negetive, look at it that this person is not right for you and time to move on. For whatever reason, this was not the right person, but each time it is bringing you closer.

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