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Don’t give up, don’t let anyone tell you that you are getting to old to find your partner, too old for children, (there is always adoption), or you are not marriage material. If you really want to get married, then just continue to look at all your options to dating, till the right person come’s your way.

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and even when you are not. Stay active, enjoy life. Don’t let the dating scene be the only outlet in your life. Between dates this will get really lonely. Be your own person, when dating this will come out, and you will be a better person for it. If you are out there enjoying yourself, Museums, Coffee Shops, Sports, whatever you enjoy to do, will also give you something to talk about on your date.

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Jewish Dating, like anything else is difficult and frustrating, but we have to attempt to go through this if we want to meet someone. What are some signs that this person could be for you? After a few dates you feel really comfortable with each other, you want to share your day/night together, you want to pick up the phone to just say hi, you think about each other, you have a smile on your face..and you feel good when you are together.

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You are out on your first date, try to focus and find the good qualities of each other. You may not ‘click’ right away. The first date is just to see if you have enough in common to go out again.

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Picky..picky..picky…are you being this way..Stop, or your chances of meeting your partner are going to get more difficult over time..open yourself up.

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You are planning on calling the person for the first time, ( or even subsequent calls after the first date)

*  Don’t call late in the evening

* if the person isn’t home, leave a message not long winded, introduce yourself, and leave a time when they could call you back

* if they say that they are a little traditional, or observant don’t call over Shabbos, or just a few hours before

* if you don’t hear from them in a few days, call back.

* don’t call during a time of day when you know they won’t be home and then continue to call, either not leaving messages, or to many.

These are just a few common curtesy tips..more to come..or what do you suggest?

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You are out on your first date, or maybe your second, it still is not the time to reveal all “personal” information. Be yourself, but you don’t have to tell them everything. If the relationship continues, they will be plenty of time to reveal the “dirty laundry”. If you are coming from a bad divorce or past relationship that didn’t work out, the first few dates are not the time to be discussing this. Be open and honest, but you can leave some of the details out, just use your discretion and make the other person as comfortable as possible to get to know you.

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It is going to happen, either way until you meet your future partner. Rejection, you will reject many men/women during the dating process. Don’t take this as negetive, look at it that this person is not right for you and time to move on. For whatever reason, this was not the right person, but each time it is bringing you closer.

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Please, don’t go out with someone if you still have feelings for someone else. Get over it. Then start dating again.

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This is difficult, go into each date with a clean slate. You may have had a bad experience with someone, or the love of your life just broke off with you, but don’t compare the next date to this. Look at each person and see about there own qualities without comparisons. Make the decision if this person is right or wrong for you, by who they are, not if they have a similar trait to someone else. You may say no to a second date with them, and miss out, just be open

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