Men: You are in your 40′s maybe in 50′s. You say you look younger then your years, so you only want to date woman who are younger. Yes you may be 42 and look in your 30′s but you have to remember, most people will agree, there is this 10 year rule. Most woman, will not date someone 10 years older. What about all those woman who are in there 40′s and 50′s looking young as well, why not date one of them?
Woman: Yes you may look younger, but the same, most men will not date woman years younger.
Just be realistic. You are still single, do you really want to get married? Or do you want to remain single? You may have to change these expectations – you never know who you are “refusing” to meet. It just could be your future spouse.