Here is my beef today. What is with all of you that just call each other back and forth and don’t actually make a time to meet. What do you think you are going to discover in a phone call? Your love of your life? Phone calls can lead to big disappointments when meeting in person. Why? because on the phone we can be whoever we want to be and not always the real me. OK i know you want to check out this person to make sure they are not a freak or something but seriously you WILL NEVER really know if they are a match or not until you actually meet up. As I have said in the past you don’t have to make the first date a huge thing. Just meet up in a park for a stroll or for coffee in a nice empty cafe. Only face to face will you really get to know if he/she is the one.