Archive for April 2014
If you feel you haven’t moved forward on a relationship in some time – maybe you should look at that relationship and ask yourself why? What was missing and was it something that you could have changed.
Ask yourself a few questions and even write them done. Why would someone want to marry you? What can you give or offer someone to have a relationship with you? How can you do to stay in relationship, remember you can only really change yourself – you can’t change someone else.
By answering these questions and really being serious with what you write down, maybe this can be the first steps to coming closer to a better relationship. Try to understand who you are – and what you are looking for. You have to be serious – and open to compromise, but more so, be realistic. It may mean for you to take a hard look at yourself, before you can move forward.
So many people wonder why they are not getting matched up. Could part of it be their dating profile?
Your profile is going to be what makes you stand out over someone else. Show a side of your personality, who you are and what makes you just a little different then the others. If you are more of the serious type, humorous, enjoy reading the classic novels this can be a way to show the other person what and who you are. Be creative, funny, like adventure say what you have done,
“come explore with me the four corners of the world,
lets take in bike riding in Europe,
hand-gliding over the sea, or swimming with the dolphins”,
Obviously only if this is something that you enjoy doing. Be realistic, if you are the quiet type that likes to stay at home with a good book, don’t say that you love to go out. You want to positive, don’t talk about the baggage or past relationships. Mention what you are hoping to find in a partner, sincere, caring and compassionate, or someone who has some spark - or a little on the “rough around the edges” If you are religious then to what level – and things that you will or won’t compromise on.
You also want your profile to be clear – without typos, or spelling mistakes – if English is not your first language then ask a friend to help you out.
Remember as well: The photo’s you want it to be recent – show a head shot, full body shot and then another one that shows a side to your personality – family oriented, adventurous, sports….
Have fun with it – take your time – and if in doubt have someone review it.
Hope this helps a little