This is something that really bothers me. I know we all want to find someone and make a good impression in our profiles but LYING about our age, height, weight etc.. will get you nowhere. There is nothing more frustrating then meeting up with someone and they are not who they said they are. I am not saying that you shouldn’t put up your best picture online but a picture of you 20 pounds lighter and 10 years younger is not fair. That is not how you look like now and you will only disappoint the other person when you meet up. What could of been a great match, most times can never be because the person who meets you feels like you are a dishonest person. I know what some of you are saying, that everyone is lying out there but that is not true and on Jretromatch we try hard to make sure people’s profiles accurately reflect who they are. So for all of you out there with some little or big fibs in your profile, maybe it is now time to fix them up.

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Are you nearing 40 or over 40 – still single and very frustrated?

Yes it is difficult, and frustrating, but don’t blame yourself, the other men/woman, the sites or the dating scene. If you are doing everything you can to meet someone, and really feel you are being realistic on your goals and expectations of the person you want to meet, then continue to do what you have to, to meet your partner.

I know, I was 40 when I got married, and I dated, did the single’s scene, not the bar scene, but finally I met and married my partner, my best friend. So I can relate. When the right person comes along, it will happen. So don’t give up if this is what you want.

But I also want to make a recommendation. Be happy with yourself, and who you are. Enjoy yourself as being single as well. This will come off when you do meet someone, and start to date.

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