Flexibility – try to be a little more…dating is difficult but if you limit yourself to zip / postal codes, you may not meet. So consider the option of travel, it is harder to have a relationship, but it may open the doors to finding your future partner.

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What you may consider to be your ideal match won’t necessarily be. So don’t think of the image of who you would like to be with but more what qualities you want. Especially as we get older, try to be a little more open minded and honest with yourselves, if you aren’t serious then don’t put someone through the hardache. You will probably not find your ideal match, so don’t expect it, compromise a little, and think of what you are willing to “negotiate on” and then you will then probaly find your life partner.

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 Depending on where you live you may be more limited for dating, but options are available for Jewish Dating. Local Jewish Community Centers, checking out your synagogue/temple if they run programs for Jewish Dating – such as Speed-Dating, Jewish organizations are developing ways to help people meet through outdoor activities, such as skiing or hiking groups and Personal ads on-line and in local papers. If you have the money and love to travel, Singles Organizations plan single’s cruises, trips. You can see the world and maybe meet your future spouse. So be creative, have some fun, and get out there. You will ever know when or how you will meet your future spouse.

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Something to consider. Relocation. Depending on where you live, it may be very difficult to meet other Jewish people. Or for that matter, even in a big city with alot of Jews. Relocation is difficult, leaving your home, family, or great paying job. 

It may be a good option for some. Don’t say no to suggestions from other communities. You may be missing out on meeting your future partner. Relocation can be discussed, and be one more obstacle to overcome. Things that can be considered for who should be the one to relocate.

Who has the higher income?

Who has the better chance of finding employment in the other city?

Are one of you caregiver for elderly parent, or children that are at an age that would be difficult to move?

These are just some questions to ask each other. In the world of Jewish Dating, there are already difficulties to finding someone suitable, why miss out on someone that may be perfect, or not so perfect, just because they live in another city.

Think about something, if you met someone while on vacation, and really got along great, would you stop seeing each other just because you lived in different places? I doubt it, it makes things a little more difficult, but you would probably continue to see each other and see how it would go.

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You want to date, but in the world of Jewish Dating really try to be serious about it. Are you looking for marriage, a casual relationship, or just to “date”.  Let your matchmaker, or your friends know where you stand. Try not to lead anyone on if you are not ready for the ‘word” committment. Be honest, with yourself and the person you are dating, or planning on dating. In the end you are not only hurting the person, but yourself as well.

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Hi,  my name is Lesley. I am a matchmaker on Jretromatch.com for Jewish Dating. I hope that I can help you in the world of Jewish Dating. Giving you some advise, and suggestions to help in the process of meeting someone.

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